photos by allison michael orenstein Hi there, I was bumming around on the internet and found a link to your entirely amazing blog. My plan of heading to the library and working collapsed completely as I got more and more dragged into your site. It’s now half past 5 in the evening in the UK […]


photos by erwin caluya Hey, So, I was wondering if you know – how do you know when a guy wants you to stay? A week ago I went into the city to hang out with this guy.  He was really cute and nice, with a sexy Spanish accent.  I get to his place and […]

Rice Queen

Him:  Hey there.  What’s up? Me:  Not much.  Just hanging out. Him:  That kid you were hitting on was really cute.  Was he Chinese?  He looked Chinese. Me:  I don’t know.  He said he was from New Mexico. Him:  Yeah but where was he really from? (pause) Me:  I don’t know.  I didn’t ask him […]


photos by ryosuke kumakura Dear Michael, I’ve been trying expand my horizons as some might say, and have gone on dates with a few guys I’ve met (relatively new for me); however, this hasn’t been working out very well. I went on a few dates with a guy that I really like (very handsome and refreshingly […]